My friend, Tammy, inspired me to do a Flashback Friday. I’ve been meaning to share more creative things here, but I’ve got my mind deep into a project that is sucking the life out of me. Outside of my new book purchase, I am probably going to bed early tonight. Well, who am I kidding? I’ll probably watch tv until I fall asleep.
Anyway, because it’s too much work to come up with a new and creative post today, I am flashing back. A year ago, I was out in Phoenix with my friend, Audra, shooting a wedding with her. My very first full catholic mass wedding conducted in half English and half Spanish. Phew! But, the mariachi band made it complete. On the ride home that night, we would learn that Andrea’s mom passed away from a heart attack. A shock to us all. I felt so helpless, hundreds of miles away from our family. My brother brought Andrea into our lives several years before and her family was cherished by us.
It’s amazing how much things change in a year, and it’s amazing how fast a year goes. Just a reflection:
It was after this wedding, and during Phyllis funeral, that I started my own “funeral list” – things I wanted to happen at my funeral. A mariachi band shall be hired to come play. Some day, I’ll share the rest of my list.
Rest in Peace, Phyllis.















