This was such a busy weekend and then lots to do this week. I took the entire weekend off from the computer. Only allowed myself access to three email accounts via my iPhone and that was it. Turned the laptop on Monday morning and welcome to hell. Go figure if you take off a few days.
So, Friday evening we spent with family as we had out of town relatives in. Friday night I started back in the middle of the night with bad stomach feelings. That whole possible gallbladder thing. So, I took it easy Saturday day and we headed over to Dan’s for his welcome home party. Celebrating his short time with us.
I was the worst photographer at that party. Only about three decent shots. Oh well. We had lots of shots and drinks that night. But all in good fun. Before we got too crazy we did have to go pick up Andrea at the airport (Jake was the sober driver until then). I went with him for the ride.
Once back it was lots of laughs. My cheeks hurt so much. He and Jake were spilling their guts to mom and Dan’s dad about all the bad things they did in the past. Oh my goodness!!!!
Dan shared his Iraqi money with us. We converted this stash to about $22 only. To hear his stories about things over there, it’s heart breaking.
I don’t care what side you stand on politically, but this kid, nor any other 18/19 year-old should NOT be there seeing and experiencing that crap. Dan is NOT in any safe zone. He doesn’t have running water almost ALL the time. He’s on 24/7 - hoping to get a nap in here and there. He’s constantly in cross-fire, and has seen the loss of life of his own.
Dan showed us video from his point-and-shoot during crossfire. My heart fell into my stomach. Pictures of their humvee pelted with bullets - the windshield completely unable to be seen out of. Huge holes that went through the doors. His scars from shrapnel and well, a bullet that he got out of his armor two days after he realized it was there.
No, it’s not right. No, he isn’t happy to be there. No, he isn’t happy with his choice. But he’s doing his job. And all we can do is support him and pray for him and others like him. After all, we’re not on the same fighting terms as them. It will never be the same level. I don’t care what you say.
I am pleased to stand up and say I do not support this war, and I want Dan to come home, for good - just like I want every other man and woman over there for this no-win situation. If you have it in your heart, please adopt a soldier - or marine, or whatever branch you want to support. Send them care packages. Let them know you are praying and hoping for them. Children in Iraq love chocolate and Dan says they love soccer balls. Let’s send them all blank cards, chapstick, magazines (gather up your last month’s subscriptions!)
Please note that I will be moderating comments and will allow only those that are non-confrontational. Please be an adult in this matter.
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I completely agree with you about being behind these men & women. My hubby has been twice, hurt during his second tour and we have a good friend who just got there for his 3rd tour. To hear their stories is just unreal, then there are the photos & videos to go along with their stories. I hope your friend Dan has a wonderful time home with his friends & family and that he returns from his completed tour unharmed.
Thanks Kelly.
Heck, I am a military wife and do not support this war. I do know though that we must never let our support for our troops fall by the wayside. They are just doing their job in dangerous places everyday, right or wrong, they need us!
Couldn’t agree with you more Holly!!! My sister’s BIL is stuck over in Iraq right now because they couldn’t get his company out on a plane. In the meantime there’s twice as many people there and they have to take turns on the cots, and there’s not enough food for all of them……they deserve so much better…..they deserve to be home!! Anyways, hope you’re enjoying your time together!!
I can’t begin to imagine what those soldiers have to go through. I do know from stories from two people I know about past wars - soldiers are forever changed. I pray they would all be able and willing to turn to God during their sleepless nights after they come home. I pray for peace in their hearts and minds after what they have seen and experienced.
I hated to read that you would need to moderate comments. My two cents - no matter how you feel about anything else - ANYTHING ELSE - it is your duty as an American citizen to support and applaud our troops. Freedom isn’t free.
Holly……my sentiments exactly!
I have a husband in the Army that has gone to Iraq and gotten hit by an IED. I have a new BIL also in the Army that has served in Iraq for two tours. And I have a sister, who is in the NAVY that will be headed out there soon. It’s scary to feel/think that they could be gone at any time while they are over there. My husband doesn’t show it much for the loss of his friends, and when he does, it breaks my heart. As an Army wife, I might not support the war, but I do support my family and soldiers.